learning to let go

  • The Curse of Control

    What can we truly control? Maybe the amount of flour we put in a recipe for chocolate cake. We certainly have control over that. What we don’t have control over is the amount of moisture in the air that will ultimately effect how that flour works in the batter. What I’ve tried to control the…

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  • The Day of Doom

    Was it the first time my virginity was taken by my father? Or was it the last time? Could the day of doom been the moment my mother entered into the pedophile ring and I was left with no one in my corner? When was the day I could take no more? I can’t be…

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  • Grief is a Grizzly Bear

    Why is it that the articles on healing and the many counselors that are not trained in sexual abuse, try to ignore grief? Think about this for just a minute. If you are walking around crying or showing your pain, isn’t that considered an unhealed person? Seems to me that the world accepts us when…

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