UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part III)

Moments of reflection — what better way to start a week. A sociopath can impress you by their brashness and their amazing ability to lie on a dime and prevaricate at will. I know most of us don’t like to use lables like sociopath, narcissist or evil but there are times when we certainly needContinue reading “UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part III)”

UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part II)

Moments of reflection — what better way to start a week. What is it like living with a sociopath? Horrible! After I married, I had a dream about my father. It turned out to be a prophetic dream. In the dream, a man crawled into my father’s downstair window. I don’t know what happened inContinue reading “UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part II)”

UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part I)

Moments of reflection — what better way to start a week. My father was certainly a psychopath. I believe I gave my hand in marriage at the tender age of 18 to a true sociopath. My father was certainly better at the game then my exhusband. The list above says it all. My father hadContinue reading “UCU | I Married a Sociopath (Part I)”

Mirror Mirror | What About God’s Love?

Moments of reflection — what better way to start a week. Yesterday was Mother’s Day. My mother never choose me. And that’s okay. I know a God that not only choose me while I was in my mother’s womb, his love surpasses the love of a mother. Can a mother forget the baby at herContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | What About God’s Love?”

Mirror Mirror | PTSD & Chronic Pain

Moments of reflection — what better way to start a week. I have been dealing with chronic physical pain for about three years now. To fix the pain, I had a full hip replacement. I thought the surgery was going to provide immediate relief. The problem – I live with severe PTSD. A childhood wroughtContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | PTSD & Chronic Pain”

Bits n’ B ~ Anonymous Advice

“Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience. You need experience to gain wisdom.” Albert Einstein Each week on Tuesday we will answer an anonymous message received at BitsnB1218@gmail.com or through DM. Dear Bits n’ B, “I have a very complicated relationship with my family. This post is directed at my dad’sContinue reading “Bits n’ B ~ Anonymous Advice”

Words of Wisdom | Evil People

In this world are millions of evil people. “The people of the evil one.” 37 He answered, “The one who sowed the good seed is the Son of Man. 38 The field is the world, and the good seed stands for the people of the kingdom. The weeds are the people of the evil one,Continue reading “Words of Wisdom | Evil People”

Mirror Mirror ~ Who do you influence?

Introspection — what better way to start a week. Question: Who do you influence and who influences you? Coming from a lifestyle of trauma, I didn’t believe I influenced anybody. And, I didn’t believe anyone really influenced me. I couldn’t have been more wrong. The way I saw this fallen world was that there wereContinue reading “Mirror Mirror ~ Who do you influence?”

Unwavering

Which person really hates themselves? It can feel like we hate ourselves, at times, but we do feed our bodies (most of the time), take bathes, walk, and do a few things that would say we like ourselves. Ask yourself this question, “Do you like who you are?” I ask this question to people andContinue reading “Unwavering”

Jaded ~ There are Two Sides of Depression

I wasn’t the depressed guy that stayed in bed all day, let their house fall apart around them, and never did the dishes. That just wasn’t me. I falsely believed that because I went constantly, I wasn’t depressed. When questioned by my counselor if I was depressed, I’d say an emphatic no. I wasn’t theContinue reading “Jaded ~ There are Two Sides of Depression”