Each week on Tuesday we will answer an anonymous message received at BitsnB1218@gmail.com or through DM. There are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual crimes. One in nine don’t report. The real number of victims is staggering but no one wants to talk about it. We will. If you need anonymous advice from Jesus’ girlsContinue reading “Bits N Bs”
Tag Archives: Violence
Why God Why?
Throughout much of my life, I’ve grappled with these questions: Where is God in the midst of abuse? What is He doing while it unfolds? What thoughts and feelings does He have? I heard someone describe it once in two words: God weeps. This is what He is doing, this is what He is thinkingContinue reading “Why God Why?”
Learning to Love
The ability to see goodness and beauty in oneself is linked to seeing it in others. My own journey through childhood PTSD and adult struggles taught me that much of my misery stemmed from my inability to connect with and care for others. Real change came when I stopped making excuses and started empathizing andContinue reading “Learning to Love”
Mirror Mirror | The Walking Dead
Introspection — what better way to start a week. I had a dream last night. There was a mother and her two small boys. I walked up to them and the boys were swimming in a large pool. Their mother was floating face down in the water. Startled, I asked the boys what was goingContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | The Walking Dead”
The Storm
Yet, the question lingers: What will you choose? It’s simpler to resume activities paused by rough weather once it has passed. But what about those you’ve suspended when the weather is still unfavorable? Will you resume them? Will you learn to embrace the challenges? Will you relish the opportunity to prove your mettle despite theContinue reading “The Storm”
Mirror Mirror | Stammering
Introspection — what better way to start a week. As I’ve walked through this healing journey for over 25 years, the common theme I found when standing up to liars was how quickly they maligned me with their critical denial. I would be surefooted in one moment about my path forward with the truth. AsContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | Stammering”
Mirror Mirror | Imagination
Introspection — what better way to start a week. Looking back on my childhood, I had small bouts of imagination. I didn’t have time to dream. But, on occasion, I did. Puff, the Magic Dragon (by Peter, Paul & Mary 1963) Puff, the magic dragon lived by the seaAnd frolicked in the autumn mist inContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | Imagination”
Mirror Mirror | Damaged Children
Introspection — what better way to start a week. Martin Luther King, Jr. had a dream — so do I. Let’s be the generation that does something for the millions of damaged children that live among us. It’s time for transformation, declaration, and a vulnerability around these issues of childhood sexual crimes. Peace be withContinue reading “Mirror Mirror | Damaged Children”
Why God?
In the intricate journey of life, the question of why God allows suffering remains a profound mystery. Childhood trauma, with its harrowing impact, often leaves individuals grappling with pain and searching for redemption. The human journey is marked by trials, including instances of profound pain & abuse that test the boundaries of faith and understanding.Continue reading “Why God?”
Recover & Restore
These words have been on repeat in my mind since the new year. In the tapestry of a new year, the threads of healing and restoration are woven by the divine hands of God. In the echoes of childhood pain and abuse, a profound journey unfolds – one of resilience, courage, and faith. But thatContinue reading “Recover & Restore”
The Pedophile Huntress 